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PRELIMINARIES TO TANTRA SEX -
CONDITIONING
BEFORE GOING ON TO EXPLAIN THE STEPS TO TANTRA SEX, I HAVE TO GO
INTO THE HINDRANCES WHICH WILL BLOCK YOUR WAY.
SEX, THE WORD ONLY, ACCORDING TO YOU CARRIES A LOT OF EXCITEMENT
AND AROUSAL. TRUE, I DON'T DIFFER FROM THAT. BUT THIS EXCITEMENT
AND AROUSAL IS ONLY FROM THE CONSCIOUS MIND AND ON THE CONTRARY
AT THE SUB-CON LEVEL THERE IS A FEELING OF SIN & GUILT ATTACHED
TO IT. THIS IS DUE TO DEEP LAYERS OF CONDITIONING SINCE
CHILDHOOD. WHEN AS AN INNOCENT CHILD YOU WOULD TOUCH YOUR
GENITAL AND YOU SAW A DENIAL ON THE FACE OF YOUR PARENTS, YOU
IMMEDIATELY WITHDREW YOUR HAND. THAT WAS THE FIRST SILENT
MESSAGE SENT TO YOUR SUB-CON THAT SEX IS SINNING. IN TEENS &
TILL YOU BECAME INDEPENDENT, YOU WERE NOT EVER GIVEN THE MESSAGE
THAT "MY CHILD, SEX IS A BEAUTIFUL THING AND IT IS THE MOST
ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE ON THIS EARTH, BUT WAIT TILL YOUR YOUTH OR
MARRIAGE AND THEN ENJOY IT FULLY". NOT THAT YOUR PARENTS WERE
WORKING TO HARM YOU AND YOU SHOULD BLAME THEM NOW FOR ALL THIS
CONDITIONING. TRUTH IS THAT THEY THEMSELVES SUFFERED FROM THE
SAME BELIEFS. BUT THE FACT REMAINS THAT WE ARE BORN OUT OF SEX
AND EVERY PARTICLE OF OUR BODY IS FULL OF SEX. FREUD SAID THAT
IF YOU ARE ASKED TO REMEMBER THE FIRST SIGNIFICANT THOUGHT OF
YOUR ADOLESCENCE, IT WILL ALWAYS BE SEXUAL. STILL SEX IS DENIED
SO MUCH THAT IT GETS THRU' TO ONE'S SUB-CON THAT IT IS SINNING.
YOU DO IT BUT ALL THE TIME IT IS ADDING A WEIGHT TO YOUR HEART.
LONG TIME BACK I HAD A PARTNER WHO WAS FROM MEDIA BUSINESS AND
WHEN EVER SHE WOULD STOP HAVING SEX 15 DAYS BEFORE ANY UPCOMING
FILM RELEASE. ONCE SHE TOLD ME ABOUT HER SUPERSTITION. IT TOOK
ME 3 MONTH TO CLEAR ALL FROM WITH IN HER. SO FIRST
PRACTICE IS TO SEE THAT DO YOU CARRY THE FEELING OF SINNING AND
GUILT ABOUT SEX. JUST WATCH DON'T TRY TO OVERCOME...
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